o and i cant tell whats better, the beard or the reaction to the beard.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Social ness
So Shakespeare once said that "All the worlds a stage, and the men and women are just players" which to me begs the question when are we not acting? I read something by Erving Goffman who had the same idea I did on that quote. He sadly ended up developing a pretty cynical view on life which then got me thinking, what does it matter if we are always acting? Do we really want to know if any action is genuine or not? I thought well everyone has their own motives about whatever they are doing because it makes them happy. Even the people who we know to be self sacrificing have their own goals. They may be feeding the poor because its "the right thing to give back" but inside their head they get some satisfaction that I am helping these people and that makes me a good person. However in the end, they are still feeding the poor. The goal is getting accomplished no matter what. Similarly lets say a guy buys his girlfriend flowers because it makes her happy. Maybe internally he's doing it because he gets enjoyment out of making his girlfriend happy, or perhaps he has some other alterior motive in mind. In the end though we are all looking out for ourselves. But what does it matter? The job is still getting done. Lets say someone takes a bullet for their buddy, they do it knowing that they "did the right thing". No action is completely selfless but what does it matter. Its like the ending to Inception, what does it matter if its a dream or its real? He's still happy.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
blogging
What is this idea of blogging? a way for people to express their themselves and get themselves out there is some would say, that its just that shy man's attempt at fame. Others would even say it was for those who crave the attention of their ego, an attempt to gain a self of satisfaction of knowing that someone is reading what i (the witty, clever, well informed, hip, confident, knowledgeable) have to say and benefiting from said literary genius. I was one of those who fell into the last category, and to some degree still do. Maybe this is my craving for attention, my craving that someone out there is reading this and thinks im cool, or says i totally get that! I thought i would never blog to be that big headed and crave the critiques of others. on the hand does that not make me pompus and proud? thinking im too good or too humble to blog on the internet because its what everyone else is doing? I dunno.
To me blogging is like facebook statuses and not for the obvious connection. With blogs and those status updates we are constantly trying to put ourselves out to the public casually but still cool. We try to make these updates and posts clever and obsecure so only some of our "friends" may understand, or try to be funny so we get 15 likes as if it makes our self worth higher knowing someone appreciates my humor. And then we have the person who just says what he wants to say about every single thing in his life. All three piss me off because we are just so fake on a means of attempting to be real.
Hell while writing this blog i found myself falling into the same pitfalls i criticize. I guess its just inherent when we put our thoughts on the internet, we constantly try to put the best without seeming to be trying too hard. Its like a continuous first date in which we cant tell if we just want sex, a relationship, or to get the fuck out.
and for the record the rent is too damn high.
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